ANGER!

[JayP]

Originally Posted by terragotti

QUOTE=Wes;179997]i think you need some THC in your system. it won't make your problems go away but it will give you some relief and take your mind off of things that are stressful. i know this isn't sound advice but it's honestly what works for me (and lots of others).

^ Try this first then go to the next step, maybe watch some Tosh.O and laugh a lil, good ole slut-a-ne session wit the Mrs and turn off the phone.[/QUOTE]

A WHIFF OF NITRO NEVER HURT ANYONE

[ManOfBusiness]

I use to hold shit in, and then black out on people and fuck them up.
im pretty sure it looked like this minus the smile

then I realized I was a victim of giving too much of a fuck.

so I stopped and my life changed.

for example, my gf of 2 years just broke up with me today... I felt a storm of emotions brewing inside of me, and then I just didn't give a fuck.


Hope this helps,

Best regards

Duce.

[collector000]

I used to let myself get angry. I still do, but when it happens, no one knows.

When people are angry that's when they're the most vulnerable.

You don't want to be in that position, I'm sure.

Take control of the situation. Feel the energy created by the anger. Realize that anger only clouds your judgement. Harness the power of your anger-

Make the power of anger your BITCH.

Learn to be more calm as your anger progresses. At the moment of impact, when your anger completely explodes inside of you, if you can control it and turn it into a nice, calm, smooth, welll thought out statement/plan/act you will realize that people are at their weakest point when they're at the end.

And you will be in total control. The energy and rage that makes you ball your fist is exponentially more powerful if you have complete control over it.

Or just listen to some Neil Young and go the THC route. It works.

[JayP]

I will say I have learned that when you don't care about something, you don't own the problem.

[ManOfBusiness]

Originally Posted by JayP

I will say I have learned that when you don't care about something, you don't own the problem.

what problem? :dunno:

see what I did there?

[JayP]

Originally Posted by ManOfBusiness

what problem? :dunno:

see what I did there?

Prime example of choosing not to own a problem...

[ManOfBusiness]

Originally Posted by JayP

Prime example of choosing not to own a problem...

my parade... you just rainded on it...

OP really tho, im sure people push you because your up to it and can take it.

its when they don't push you and expect things from you you should wonda.

[Artillery129]

^ I have tried feigning ignorance....

[whats77inaname]

Originally Posted by Artillery129

^ I have tried feigning ignorance....

Feign harder

I understand what you mean about meeting people and then they take advantage of you. I'm a network admin, and when people find out, it's always, "Hey, I have this computer problem, can you help me out?" So I always break out with something like, "Yah, man, that's cool, bring it over on Saturday. I'm (building a deck/extending my covered patio in the backyard, putting 220 in the garage, etc), and when I get finished working on your computer, you can help me!"

Or my other option is to tell people I charge $100/hr for computer work b/c my time w/my family and my other projects is valuable, and if the building doesn't scare them away, the fee usually does.

[Artillery129]

^ Thats actually very good advice, and I happen to get extremely similar treatment, I am a software developer and people try to take advantage of all their computer problems through me, next time I'll suggest that they help me on some random automotive project, like "hey, I'm pulling the motor and disassembling the internals, its going to take about 24 hours of labor to meticulously clean each piston and valve, want to come over?